Online dating failure streaks
It’s as simple as keeping track of how many times you send each message and how many times each message gets a response.
The math is simple: The number of replies divided by the number of times sent for each message gives you your response rate, which you can track on a running basis in a spreadsheet.
These two lines work great for women in their 20s who don’t respond the first time: Bonus Follow-Up Tinder Line #1: Playing hard to get already? Bonus Follow-Up Tinder Line #2: We just matched and you’re already playing hard to get?!
Women appreciate persistence, and it only takes seconds to copy, paste and send. It may be where it all begins, and one day you can tell your kids you met on Tinder.
Breakfasts, desserts and everything in between are winning conversation starters online. Hinge recently found that women are 40% more likely to respond to messages about delicious edibles. Take your conversational cue from her photos, or what she’s written in her bio.
Your opener needs to be more than just a GIF, though.
The best opening line depends on the age of the woman of interest because something that makes a hottie in her 20s giggle will make an experienced 40-year-old roll her eyes and move on.
The data crunchers over at Hinge, a mobile app that matches users who share Facebook friends, created 100 unique opening lines and tracked their success rates.
(Not from me, it’s coming in the mail.) The catch is you have to leave tomorrow. Even if you hit her with literary gold, there’s a chance she won’t respond. In fact, the second attempt accounts for 21% of our clients’ responses at Virtual Dating Assistants.
But that doesn’t mean you can’t do anything about it. As my token of appreciation for your reading this far, here are a couple bonus messages.